Winning your husband’s heart through good meals

This saying is true, reliable and legitimate. In polygamous families and societies, the fight for husband’s love and control is often done through soothsayers, charm and blackmail. This causes a lot of commotion and enmity in the family. Some women  forget their virtues and feminine nature in their matrimonial houses. Delicious meal is a love […]

This saying is true, reliable and legitimate. In polygamous families and societies, the fight for husband’s love and control is often done through soothsayers, charm and blackmail. This causes a lot of commotion and enmity in the family.
Some women  forget their virtues and feminine nature in their matrimonial houses. Delicious meal is a love refresher and resuscitator in marriage.
A woman should never lose her cooking abilities even if she is working. Finding time to cook a delicious meal for your husband no matter your schedules will increase your love, and will keep the going good.
Some working class women find it hard to maintain their marriages, not always because of their constant absence, but in some cases, not finding time to cook delicious food for their husbands.
No matter your position, money,  or number of cooks you have, a delicious meal prepared by a wife to her husband is always received with additional love,  and respect and loving memory.
Some women argue that their husbands lack “thank you” attitude. No matter her trial, no matter her willingness to impress him, he will never utter the words ‘thank you’, or ‘ “I am pleased”.
Some men actually lack the  capacity to express their hearts so easily. Some times, a woman will do things an average person will say thank you, but her husband will keep mute.
Many complain about the attitudes of their husbands. They say sometimes they feel their husbands see them as slaves. “He neither  listens to my opinion nor does anything to please me except I request for it,” They say.
A woman needs to study her husband. She needs to have understanding for her marriage to last well and in happiness.  She needs to know his favorite food, cloths, colour, among others.
After love, respect, understanding, the power of food will let you get your man without raising the sword. The power of your delicious meal will subjugate him for you without a single strive.
Your power of food will make him not to argue with you. Your power of delicious meal will always make him come back home when it’s time for food even if he doesn’t want to. Your power of food will make him not to want to offend you.
The role of delicious, aromatic meal in a peaceful, happy marriage cannot be over emphasized. Most men do feel happy and comfortable eating traditional food at home. It is sad that nowadays women have virtually lost their methodology in preparing traditional foods. Atimes the husband has to go out to eat such kinds of food.
Nowadays women resort into cooking rice, indomie, macaroni as the constant meal of the house. That is surely a minus, a negative mark for you. If you understand that your husband values traditional meals, then it will be a plus for you when you learn how to cook it, and then serve him with it. He will appreciate it, he will love you, he will not offend you.
In a nutshell,  a woman must know how to cook a delicious meal for her husband. Men should always appreciate their wives’ good and sincere efforts for a long, happy, and everlasting marriage.

Jari wrote from Kofar Kaura Katsina.